Abuse Checklist & Safety Plans

Safety Plans

• Think of a safe place to go if an argument occurs – avoid rooms with no exits (i.e. bathroom) or rooms with weapons (i.e. kitchen).
• Have a safety plan with a trusted neighbor, family member, or friend. Ask them to call 911 if they hear a disturbance. Establish a “code word” or “sign” so they know when to call for help.
• Always keep a packed bag ready in a safe place with easy access.
• Have a copy of important papers (including birth certificates, social security cards, etc.)
• Save and document all contacts, messages, injuries, or other incidents involving your partner.
• Know where you would go to be safe if you have to leave, including places within walking distances if you cannot access your vehicle.
• Consider filing a protective order through the courts. Remember it is important to follow existing court orders (i.e. custody orders, visitation orders, protective orders, divorce, etc.)
• If you have to meet your partner, do it in a public place.

Visitation Safety Planning

• Document exchanges, including who was involved and any altercations.
• Always keep court documents on you and contact the police if needed.
• Request that visitations be in public places like a bank, fast food locations, etc.
• Request that all verbal and phone contact be stopped (except for emergencies) and that all communications happen through text or email.

Vanderburgh County Community Resources

LEGAL

Legal Aid Society
812-435-5173

Indiana Legal Services 
812-426-1295

MEDICAL

Ascension St. Vincent Hospital
812-485-4000

Deaconess Midtown Hospital 
812-450-5000

ECHO Clinic
812-421-7489

Tri Cap
812-428-218